Suck at flirting? Don’t know how to show someone you are interested in them romantically or sexually?
This series is for you, and will work whether you are a man or woman.
The Flirty Conversation Series is designed to give you guidelines and techniques to improve your flirting skills during a conversational.
Put these flirting techniques into practise and I promise you’ll never be told ‘I just didn’t feel a spark‘ after a date again.
1. Conversational flirting overview
The following guidelines will help take your flirting skills from zero to hero in no time. Take the time to understand the general principles first, and then dive into specific techniques.
Flirting during a conversation should be friendly and playful. In order not to come across as a creep, whilst still ensuring the other person knows you are flirting with them, use the Heartbeat Method.
2. Flirty body language
Use of your body, tonality and facial expressions is a huge part of flirting, arguably more important than the words coming out of your mouth.
A simple glance, a light touch, a cheeky smile can all set our hearts racing when done correctly, and cause us to become more attracted to the person we are speaking to.
1. The Complete Guide to Flirting with Eye Contact
The eyes are the window to the soul. They are also a powerful seduction weapon when used correctly. You must practise flirty eye contact when speaking with someone you want to attract. Understand why using your eyes to attract someone is one of the most techniques you can master.
The Tongue Poke is a tongue-in-cheek (well, technically a tongue-out-of-cheek) facial gesture which can be used to flirt. Learn three situations in which you can use the tongue poke to generate attraction.
3. Flirting with playful teasing
Gentle teasing is an incredibly effective flirting technique. Teasing is often solely reserved for people we know well, like friends and family, because we know they are able to take a joke.
By teasing someone you’ve just met, you are sub communicating to them feelings of closeness and friendship. “I’m comfortable enough around you and like you enough to treat you like I would treat a friend”.
Teasing also demonstrates a good sense of humour, a friendly, relaxed nature, and someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously. All of these are attractive qualities to most people.
Many of the techniques are a form of friendly teasing (otherwise known as banter).
Pretending you have become distracted from the conversation by a sexy mental image involving them that has spontaneously popped into your head, caused by something they said.
8. I didn’t want to say anything…
Pretending you were thinking something all along about a personal subject the other person has just called attention to. Coming soon.
9. The Terrible Human
Accusing someone of being the worst person in the world for something extremely minor. Coming soon.
10. My Mum Warned Me…
Telling someone they are the type of person your mum warned you about when you were younger. Coming soon.