I believe fear of loss is the number one reason why men suck at dating.
Imagine if you had no fear. Imagine if you had the superpower to shrug off any criticism or bad feelings.
What if you didn’t fear losing the woman you are dating?
When dating we are playing a subtle game of chess. We are, knowingly or unknowingly, carefully trying to maneuver our opponent (our date) into a corner and win. Winning might mean getting a second date to some people, a kiss to others, or a sense that ‘this might be the one’ to another.
Regardless of what your objective is, you are playing. And with any game, you risk losing. You risk your carefully constructed moves blocked and countered at every opportunity. You risk never achieving your desired outcome. (more…)